Never throw away these 4 things after a loved one dies

Notes, cards, or letters in a loved one’s handwriting may seem like small details, but they often hold lasting emotional value. Over time, even a quick message or a signed card can become something you’re thankful to have kept.

“Some of my most treasured items are letters written by my mother. Seeing her handwriting and reading her words makes me feel connected to her. I yearn to have more of these connections,” writes one woman, who lost her mother to cancer, in a grief support blog.

Seeing their handwriting again – whether on a birthday card or a note left behind – can feel unexpectedly reassuring. These items can offer comfort and a sense of connection, especially on tough days.

Instead of tossing them out too soon, consider saving them in a box or folder. They may become a meaningful reminder of the person you miss.

2. Moments that don’t fade

Photos capture moments in time, while recordings and videos preserve the sound of a voice, a laugh, or a pause – details that may fade in our minds but live forever in our hearts.